I’m very aware that my boyfriend and I are going through our lives a little backwards. We’ve been together for 8 months now, and our baby is due in January. And then we want to get married in about 2-3 years, or later, so that our little boy can be a part of that day with us.
Something big did happy recently. His dad passed away last week. It was a big hurdle that we will probably be working to get passed for a while. They were never very close, but I know that with the birth of our own son getting closer and closer, Ben is very worried about how he will be as a father and as a person that I rely and depend on. He gets scared that he will fail us somehow.
I know that he’s going to excel at fatherhood, and that we will have a beautiful life together, no matter how backwards our beginning has been.
"Some men feel that too much responsibility for preventing sexual assault has been put on their shoulders"
We’re telling you not to rape people and you think the bar’s never been higher
that’s because men, unlike women, are not used to being told they can’t do something.